Condradictions?

You know people are walking contradictions. Especially adults, I mean they tell you yes, then no. Grow up, stay a kid forever. Do your homework, you're lazy get outside and play. Mixed signals right? Well what do they expect? We listen to every contradictory comment they make? Boy that would be exhausting!

And teens, we're worse. (Mainly the teenage girls). We aren't only contradictions we're damn roller coasters of emotion. How about a few examples shall we?

A) Relationships:

We go from this- I'm in love! He's perfect. I'll never find a man this perfect. I'm going to marry him. He sweeps me off my feet. He's so romantic. Etc. To this- I hate him. He's a dick. All he wanted was sex. I can't believe I thought I was in love with him. To- I can't believe I thought he was so horrible...Yeah the list goes on and on. First you love him then you hate him, yeah we get it....

B) Friendships:

We love you, we hate you, we use you. You do it right back. Roller coaster of love hate and betrayal.

That is what this is all about, let's see who we can screw over as many times as possible.

The only ones who aren't so bad are the guys from 18 and younger and this is why:
A) If they like you, you know it. If they don't like you you REALLY know it.
B) They keep their friends by being straight with them.
C) While we women are sitting here going "Oh my god! He doesn't talk he hates me" he's sitting here contemplating his next meal and what game to play after dinner. Am I wrong?
Life could be simple if we were more like teenage men: straightforward...I think....

You Know What?

It is time for me to just say fuck you and move on. That's not so nice I know but I am so sick of people and this is why:
Ever since I started dating my boyfriend everyone I thought I was friends with (not EVERYONE that's an exaggeration but A LOT of people that were my so called "friends") decided they despised me because either they hate who I am dating or that I am dating someone that isn't them or even they hate me for dating him.
Here is what I have to say to that, you mean nothing to me now. You are dead to me for treating me this way so now I say I am discontent with your bullshit friendship and I am deleting you from my life and I will refuse to even remember your lies. I don't need this I have enough going on in my life without you making it harder for me to be happy.
As for my love life I'm not sorry you hate me for dating him but you know what? Don't hate me because you didn't want him anymore, you didn't want to try and that's fine but stop trying to make me leave him, you won't ever get back with him so why try and break us up? It isn't my fault you couldn't make it work.
For those of you who got hurt because I am dating him I'm sorry you got hurt, however, I am not sorry that you took your sweet ass time telling me you want me. You were the one who waited until it was too late to tell me you loved me. You waited until it was impossible to be more than friends to want a relationship and I can't give you that. I'm sorry you're hurt but you brought that on yourself you coward.
Last but not least those of you who hate my man, ask yourself why. If it's personal and he hurt you that's between you. If it is his reputaion then get over it he's not that guy anymore and you can see that if you get to know him the way I do but you have to want to see the real him not that thing you remember him to be.
Everyone who is still there for me I love you and I thank you for being there and for being so wonderful.
For EVERYONE remember this one thing: It isn't easy and you have to want to but it is possible for this to happen: People do change for better and worse but the point is that they do change.